Aubrey O’Day is telling all about her relationship and break up from Paul “DJ Pauly D” Delvecchio.
Over 5 years after their break up, and on the heels of the discharge of her new single, “Couple Targets,” which discusses their “poisonous” relationship, the truth star and singer, previously of Danity Kane, seemed again on the therapeutic she endured after their public breakup and slammed the Jersey Shore forged member for his therapy of her throughout their short-lived romance.
“I went to Bali, I used to be capable of heal and have such an unbelievable expertise, and now I really feel prepared to speak a bit extra concerning the issues I’ve been via in life since all people likes to report about them incorrectly,” Aubrey, 38, defined to TooFab on November 21.
In response to Aubrey, she waited to launch a tune about her previous relationship with Pauly, 42, as a result of she didn’t wish to converse out of ache or anger.
“I like to ensure I’m healed and that I’m coming from a spot of only a real need to share artwork, and that there isn’t any unhealthy intention concerned as a result of that may then be like corrupting my craft,” she revealed.
As followers might recall, Aubrey and Pauly met on E’s Famously Single and went on to look on Marriage Boot Camp: Actuality Stars.
“I used to be form of getting a personality,” she shared, “Some persons are very ready with their character, and really ready and conscious of how they may current themselves to individuals, and people individuals normally take advantage of cash, as I’m positive you understand. I discover it a bit tougher to be that.”
“If I’m going to talk from my most advanced self, I’d say it was extremely poisonous,” Aubrey continued of their 2016 to 2017 relationship. “And I received’t level fingers as a result of in case you settle for and obtain that conduct and keep, there’s bought to be one thing poisonous and unhealthy fallacious with you as effectively.”
Though Aubrey, who was briefly linked to Donald Trump, Jr., acknowledged that she and Pauly didn’t convey out the perfect in one another, she added that the potential “two-way avenue” was “two methods” as a result of “he was poisonous, and I used to be permitting it.” And, in her new tune, she claims Pauly “by no means f-cking cared” and accuses him of lies.
Previous to her relationship with Pauly, Aubrey mentioned she was all the time somebody who “by no means sacrificed my work for a person.” Nonetheless, as she bought older and needed to start out a household, she started to compromise.
“[When] the compromise is all the time his approach or no approach or punishment, then it turns into a really poisonous dynamic, and I don’t suppose I noticed on the time how a lot I didn’t love myself or worth or respect my items, and that I can do higher than what my childhood taught me,” she recalled.
Aubrey additionally spoke of Pauly’s daughter, Amabella, 9, who she says in her tune referred to her as “Mother.”
“The connection size was completely downplayed. The ending was downplayed. The particular person I used to be to his life and his daughter’s life was very downplayed,” she defined. “I felt numerous anger on the time for being so discredited as a result of I fell in love with the kid, and I misplaced her in it, and that’s one thing that I needed to heal from, and that’s one thing he in all probability will not be working with a lot compassion over.”
Within the refrain of “Couple Targets,” Aubrey sings, “poor poor lady/you suppose you bought the entire world/however he’s simply providing you with/the identical present,” to herself, and likewise to Pauly future flames. Nonetheless, when requested if she thinks Pauly’s girlfriend Nikki Corridor, who has been seen alongside him on A Double Shot at Love, will take heed to the observe, she mentioned, “Completely not.”
“I feel that what Pauly needs is the precise reverse of me, and if he’s relationship the precise reverse of me, then perhaps he’s discovered the precise particular person. However I couldn’t spend my life dwelling for and solely about Pauly D, as a result of I’m a lot extra,” she conclude
The music video for “Couple Targets,” which showcases a completely nude Aubrey, is presently out there for uncensored viewing on her OnlyFans web page.