Shannon Beador is struggling to deal with her November 2022 break up from John Janssen.
Whereas showing on the radio present of longtime good friend Jeff Lewis on Thursday, simply sooner or later after the previous couple confirmed they’re now not collectively, the Actual Housewives of Orange County star admitted she had a tough day on Wednesday when the information broke and defined why she was “blindsided” by the break up.
“I don’t need to begin to cry however yesterday was a extremely arduous day for me and I couldn’t cease crying,” Shannon shared on Jeff Lewis Live on January 12.
“I understand how troublesome it was,” Jeff replied.
In accordance with Jeff, he and Shannon have loads in frequent, together with their birthday, and so they typically go to at least one one other for relationship recommendation. As he defined, he and Shannon are searching for the “identical factor” in a associate, which is why he suspected that she and John wouldn’t go the gap — and proclaimed such on Watch What Occurs Dwell.
“I knew that you just had been struggling. I knew that you just weren’t fully pleased in order that’s why I used to be questioning whether or not or not there could be a future,” Jeff famous.
And whereas Shannon understood the place Jeff was coming from when he made the remark, she wasn’t pleased he did — and neither was John.
“He was upset, and so, in fact, I’m going to advocate on behalf of my relationship as a result of I’ve by no means cherished anybody near as a lot as I like John so I needed all the time for every thing to work out,” she famous. “I simply had the largest hope.”
Though Jeff had his doubts, he by no means informed Shannon to interrupt up with John, who she started courting in 2019. In spite of everything, he felt that if he voiced his issues, it may in the end jeopardize their friendship.
“They might reconnect six months from now. I don’t wanna be that good friend that will get pushed out,” he mentioned as Shannon shot down the concept of a reunion.
“It’s over, Jeff. So I’ll say that the final time I spoke to John was starting of December so I’ve by no means gone for this period of time not talking to him. It’s an enormous deal,” she confirmed.
Jeff went on to reward John for the way in which he handled the RHOC forged member, noting that he was “excellent” to her, was affectionate along with her, and acted “caring and doting and protecting.”
As for the timing during which John selected to finish their relationship (only one week after Shannon wrapped manufacturing on season 17), Shannon recalled their abstract dinner on the finish of filming.
“It was nice. John and I filmed collectively. I obtained teary-eyed with the phrases that he was saying and I believed, ‘We’re gonna get there,’” she admitted.
“Now he wasn’t particular, however from what I bear in mind he mentioned that he desires to take the connection to the subsequent degree, which to me, I believed engagement,” Jeff replied, asking, “Did you suppose the identical factor on the time?”
“I simply thought, regardless of the subsequent step is, we’re gonna take it and I bear in mind tearing up and I bear in mind saying very sort issues to him again. So for that purpose, that’s why I felt blindsided,” Shannon defined.
The Actual Housewives of Orange County season 17 is anticipated to premiere on Bravo someday within the coming months.